A Journey to Japan


Japan is the country where I was born. I have never written about my trips to Japan even though I have gone back there every single year. My main purpose is to see my family but at the same time, that is a chance to ponder about life.

As usual, there were long flights from where I live in Australia to my hometown, Kumamoto. One of the reasons for the long flights was that I went through Tokyo. After I got to Tokyo, there was another delay before my flight to Kumamoto.

The other reason the journey felt so long was because of the eight-hour layover time at Singapore’s Changi airport. If we do not stay at a little hotel room inside the airport or do not plan to do something, the waiting hours feel dreadful.

I discovered that there were two free movie theatres in Changi airport. So if I could find a few good movies it is a good way to kill some time. Also, there are little pools, gyms or massage places.


By the time I got to Kumamoto, I was totally exhausted. Even though I have been travelling to Japan for ten years, I still find it difficult to get a decent sleep.


My mother is eighty years old and unfortunately, she is getting weaker and weaker every time I see her. In my mind, I think of my mother as she was in her 50’s and 60’s when she was strong. So observing her bedridden, getting vulnerable each year is hard.


I spent quality time with one of my best friends on the last day in Kumamoto. It was wonderful to catch up on each other’s lives since last we met. In spite of being a busy mum, she made time for me and we chatted and laughed a lot together.


The next day I flew to Tokyo. I caught up with my only brother there. We talked about our parents, the difference between our mother and father. My brother was saying one of the reasons our mum is bedridden is because she has never been interested in exercising throughout her life. That is partly because her hips and legs have been weak most of her life and she has gone through a few big operations over the years. Obviously, no one could say that she should have done exercises. Another reason she is ageing is because of her personality. She has been an introvert most of her life. She and one of her sisters have been good friends but other than that, my mum hardly ever socialised with other people. My father, on the contrary, is still active, he used to do social dancing for years and now he does table tennis three times a week. Thankfully, he is as fit as a fiddle.


The next day, I went to one of the old towns in Tokyo, Asakusa. I went there early in the morning before the many tourists arrived but they started to fill up the area soon after. Despite the crowds, I totally enjoyed the area.

Asakusa is the place where kimonos are common. I enjoyed watching the traditional and modern clothing together. 


One of the differences between Japan and Australia is that most of the old-fashioned Japanese restaurants display plastic sample dishes on the footpath or at least photos to show you what the meals look like. So you know exactly what you will get. 


The last day in Tokyo, I went to Aoyama where my favourite fashion designers’ shops are. Yohji Yamamoto and Comme des Garcons are the pioneers of Japanese fashion. Usually, I do not have the opportunity to visit their shops when I go to Japan because I do not visit Tokyo every time. But this trip I was in Tokyo and had a lot of time. I spent many happy hours wandering around their shops, looking at their crafts.


It was a wonderful trip to my hometown, Kumamoto as well as Tokyo. 

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Thank you,


Powerful Question About Life 3


Time is the most precious commodity in life. It cannot be bought or made. It is only given. That makes us realise that we have to use time effectively because nobody knows when our time is going to end. That being said, we do not have to go and save the world. We can start what we can do on a small scale in daily life. Here are some examples of what we can do.


Reading Great Books To Study And Learn 

When I was young, I was not much of a reader. My parents never encouraged me to read, they did not tell me what was the benefit of reading nor did I have a curiosity what books would have given me.

When I was twenty-seven, a friend loaned me a book to read when I was in hospital. I cannot remember what the book was but it was intriguing so I devoured it. That was the starting point of my reading journey.

For me, benefits of reading are; creative stimulation, acquiring knowledge, learning history, expansion of my vocabulary range, making me a better writer, improvement of focus and concentration, stress reduction and so forth.


Going To Art Galleries And Exhibitions For Inspiration

Looking at art in books is wonderful, yet visiting art galleries and exhibitions is the best way to experience fine art. My experience is that when I see some original art, I get goosebumps. This never happens when I look at books.


Do The Things That You Love To Do Whether The Results Are Successful Or Not 

Whatever your special interests might be, “actual doing” brings joy. Some people are afraid to try because they think they might not be able to complete the project or do not have the ability to finish it well. Nonetheless, we all have to start at some point whether or not we are happy with the result at first.

You do not have to create excellent results from the very beginning. You can simply express yourself and enjoy the creativity. The more you practice your art, the better the result you get. The truth of the matter is practice makes the master.


Be Healthy And Laugh 

A healthy lifestyle is the number one priority in life. Eating well and looking after the body is the key to longevity. So we have to choose what to eat wisely and give ourselves a certain amount of activity to lower risk of injuries and diseases.


Give Yourself A Time Off 

Once in a while, it might be the best use of our time to simply take a break. If you are feeling blue and do not have the energy to go about the day, time off might be the smartest use of your time to allow yourself to heal and rejuvenate. It is okay to give yourself time to embrace your aches and pains for a while. You will let them go when you are ready to go to your next chapter.


Now, it is your turn to ponder about what is your best use of your time. What makes you happy?











After all, the quality of your use of time is the most significant.

Knowing just how little time you have will let you put the time you do have to much better use.


Do you have a healthy relationship with time? What are some ways you’ve made peace with time?







A Surprising Contact from an Old Friend

In between the year of 1999 and 2000, I was in my late twenties and I did not know what I wanted to do with my life. One day, I was walking in the city of Kumamoto, Japan, which is my home town and saw a sign of  “Studying Abroad in London”. It got my attention so I went into the office to see what was involved. In that office, I was introduced to courses to go to the UK to study English for a reasonable fee while working.

A great majority of Japanese people would like to improve English because Japanese schools taught  mainly using textbook English with grammatical focuses and their main purpose was conquering tests. That is why mastering spoken English has always been so problematic for Japanese people. And yet, a great number of Japanese people would like to improve their spoken abilities. Because if their overall English level is great, it certainly serves to get a higher salary, take advantage of having a better career, or simply making foreign friends.

I met two girls through the study abroad agency and they also wanted to study English in the UK. All the preparation time passed and I left Japan a bit earlier than them but they arrived soon after that. We had a great time together in the UK even though we were in different classes. In the end, I got close to one of them, Terumi.

Then, our year-long study abroad finished. Unfortunately, we drifted apart because I did not make an effort to keep in touch with her.

Years later, I received a postcard which was forwarded to my mum’s care home facility because I already moved to Australia. Mum is old and becoming forgettable year by year that is why she did not tell me that she had a postcard for me. I discovered it 6 years later when I was tidying up her possessions.

I felt bad about not knowing Terumi’s effort to reach me even though I did not know that I received it so I immediately contacted her to apologise. She was surprised to hear from me. She understood the situation and there was no problem.

Some more years passed. One day, my computer went wrong and I lost all the emails I had received. The message from the friend years earlier was in my mailbox and I did not jot her address down in any other places in case of occurring problems of a computer. I was so shocked that I could not recover my old emails and I thought I would never be able to contact her nor some of my other friends.

Recently, my friend Terumi found me on Facebook and left a message. It was so wonderful to hear from her. In the meantime she had married a British man and lives in the UK with their beautiful children👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

I am not into Facebooking much but for this reason, I am so happy to have a Facebook account.

May my friend Terumi be happy💕


Best wishes,




A First Review on My Japanese Vintage Obi Product


What I learned with my previous online business was that selling products through the Internet was not easy. Sometimes, what to do with the products that I could not sell still gives me a headache because they have filled up my storage. The fact that I have so many items left at home does not encourage me to make more items.

From time to time, I sell my products on Etsy which is an online marketplace to showcase handmade products. I had not used Etsy for a while but some months ago,  I started to sell my items again. I decided to sell them for reduced prices in order to clear the products.

I received so much traffic but it did not lead to sales for months. But I am pleased to announce that I sold an item on Etsy the other day.

The purchaser from Western Australia who bought this mini bag left a positive review on the Etsy website. I was so pleased and felt so much gratitude for her generous comment. I hope the bag will serve her well. The review said;

“Utterly excellent quality. Extremely well made, beautifully finished. The seller is an artist – every detail is superb. Parcel arrived very quickly and the goods were well (beautifully) wrapped and more than adequately protected. I loved it so much that I immediately purchased two more items. An absolute bargain (especially at current prices!).”

As the buyer described above, she came back and ordered another two items. Honestly, I was over the moon.

Sometimes, my doubtful mind tells me “People say nice things because they are trying to make me feel good”. But when I received a positive review from an outsider, I allowed myself in a humble way to accept the fact that I have been making quality products. That encouraged me enough.


On the very same day, another person from Sydney purchased two items below. The vintage Japanese obi clutch bag and the Japanese chirimen cosmetic pouch.

Surprisingly, the purple cosmetic pouch is the best seller from my range. This was the fourth time that I sold it. Somehow, people like this purple pouch.





My First Pattern Making Project On My Own

It is daunting when I think about pattern making. Although I had some lessons for a few years and made many samples, I was not and am still not that confident in my ability.

The reason was that I always had my teacher around when I made patterns. I always had access to her when I needed help. Now that I am doing on my own, it is a good idea to try making patterns on something I like as a way of practice and examine my capability.


I had a green jacket that I liked and I decided to copy the design as a practice. Usually, I am not fond of mimicking designs because there is no originality. But the more I looked at the jacket the more interested I became. My dilemma was this; it looked so difficult. I was not sure whether I could figure everything out because there were layered lapels with different height, lots of zips and studs as features. However, I still wanted the challenge regardless of the hurdle.


I started with my personal basic front and back patterns. I had to guess the height, length and angle of the lapel and making standing collar was still unclear to me so I decided to make its pattern by draping. Many hours later, I completed the front and back patterns.


I have not practised enough to make two-sleeve construction myself so I decided to borrow a pattern from one of my pattern making books.



Seam allowances were added and cut on each pattern. I had two meters of “not-so-expensive” soft denim fabric at home so I decided to use it instead of purchasing another piece of calico. I wanted to make the jacket properly so I used different kinds of interfacing to support the material well.



Back view, the sleeves are pulled back more than they were supposed to be. I should not have, but I emailed my teacher for help and asked whether I could have a lesson to solve this problem with her. Unfortunately, it did not work out so I decided to keep figuring it out myself.



I added a bit of fabric and another piece of fabric to see whether I could get what I wanted for the back. In the end, the jacket improved a bit but it was not still acceptable to my standard. I thought of unpicking and start from the beginning but I put so much detailed work in between the procedures and I knew that it would take an awful lot of time undoing the jacket.

The thought of unpicking had given me dread so I left it for a few days. Finally, I decided to keep on sewing and finish the jacket since I knew that I could still wear it and for the sake of not wasting the fabric.



This was the first time I tried to use ornamental studs. They vary but the studs that matched with the jacket were quite easy to attach. I had never used pliers before and I was concerned whether I could place the studs properly without damaging the fabric.



This was my first attempt at making a jacket pattern on my own. Thinking back, I could have tried a simpler jacket or even tops to start with. But I have learned a bit more along the way and still have a lot more to learn. In a way, it was a blessing in disguise that I could not have a lesson with my teacher because I would have relied on her to solve the problem. I have to say that my pattern making teacher is one of the most helpful and generous people I have ever met.

When I face difficulty, it gives me a bit more confidence each time whatever I do whether it is a creative endeavour or life itself.

Thank you for your time,


A Day of Harvesting Olives

Olive season went past and it seemed late but we decided to harvest some olives because we had so many this year. Some of our friends came over to help us pick some olives because they wanted to have the experience.


Jeff is using an electric flapper for getting olives.


Rosalie was preciously holding some dark olives in her hands. I love her beautiful smile!


I was hand-picking some olives.


Because we were five of us, we filled olives up with our containers within a day. Two weeks after that, we went to a pressing premise to ask cold-pressing the olives. Then we went to a packaging place to finish and box the oil off.

We could not get many olive oil boxes this year as much as we hoped but we all enjoyed the sunshine, chat and the activity itself. I hope our friends enjoyed it, too. By the way, the taste of our Skilly Hills oil is yummy!


All the best,



8th Wedding Anniversary

 After being together for almost three years, Jeff and I decided to get married in September 2009 and we celebrated our eighth wedding anniversary the other day. Fortunately, we have been having a good husband-wife relationship for those years and I have posted this blog because I want to express my gratitude, showing how content I feel with my husband.


We did not do anything big nor we had to. Rather, we drove to our favourite cafe and had a celebratory lunch.


I tend to accumulate some little presents wrapped up with paper for special days such as birthdays and Christmas and open the presents on those days. On this anniversary, I received Dr Martins summer boots, two books, a course for my personal improvement, two crystals and a jacket.


The green jacket I purchased through online was not dark enough for my liking. That is the drawback when buying a product on the Internet. However, I like the design of the jacket and the material is cotton so it is easy to handle and it is good for travelling so I decided to keep it.


Above photo shows some presents for Jeff. Four black and white photo books and a vintage camera.


Most importantly, growing old together with my husband is a dream of my life. We have had our good times as well as difficult ones. But we always overcome obstacles and keep sharing our gratitude and love together.


Much love,